Ngomrhumo othile ngoku nawuphi na umntu ongamaziyo ulungele ukukhulula iimpahla zakhe, avule imilenze yakhe aze amunxe indoda yokuqala adibana nayo. Yonke intombazana entle ibuthathaka ebusweni xa ibona iimali phambi kwayo. Andifuni ukuba ligcisa lokuchola kuba lishishini eliyingozi ukukhupha imingxunya engaziwayo. Ngokuqinisekileyo ungasebenzisa ikhondom, kodwa irabha ayisoloko igcina imini.
Leyo yindlela umama awayisebenzisa ngayo le meko. Wabeka iimpundu zakhe emgceni wentombi yakhe. Ngoku baya kucinga ngempazamo ukuba intombi yakhe lihenyukazi. Kwaye nabantwana afunda nabo kwigumbi lokuhlambela baya kuyitsala kuye.